Survival against kindness is generated from childhood or by personal choices...! Prompt # 125.

"Survival against kindness" weekly prompt # 125.

People all around the globe are born in different homes, grew up in different backgrounds, families with different lifestyles, and environmental influences, and ideologies, bound with some decisions and having many different understandings about life itself. Therefore, some behaviors are generated from this type of family settings.
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Life on it's own is unpredictable, life is full of the unexpected happenings, my major concern about this very topic is about most people seen and raised from this kind of toxic environment having developed some unrelated feelings and intimidations when someone shows them kindnesses; survival against kindness to me is a background related case.

Survival against kindness happens when someone shows a way out from sufferings, to weird people or when shown some kind of love and affections by someone either known or unknown to them, such people believe automatically that such kindness is for exploitations because of how they are raised lacking good morals, never knew that someone could help them out from hardships because it's very rare to them ever, they have been living their lives on the bases of, "survival of the fittest"

Many of them, growing up were taught to be totally independent before their maturity ages. No helping hands from lives hard and harsh every day's labour.

For instance, some children raised up in an extremely poverty related settings, having nobody to support them, maybe, they have been hawrking every where and every day to make a living for his or her family while the parents are also labouring very hard too all to a very little benefits that's barely enough, such children may develop a very tough skin about life, and do not believe that kindness can come to him without some sort of paying back.

He or she is already living by child labour syndrome, when developed into adulthood could have the understanding that life is cruel, he or she might become negatively smarter than his age mates.

This scenario is quite different from that of children raised in good homes with both parents attending to their family duties in their lives, they know the meaning and the benefits associated with kindness from their parents or from someone else to them, when it happens, they could appreciate it deeply knowing it's just a beautiful kind gesture from someone else to themselves.

Although people raised in a well organized homes can as well shift into negative vices on their own as they grow up by themselves. This is under probability

But all these should not stop anyone from showing kindness, it's a strong virture, kindness rewards to people practicing it....!

We have seen so many of them become scrappers, waste pickers or even scavengers... picking metals from dustbins and from streets to other streets every day and every where, trecking on foot and on an empty stomach all through our cities and on a very long distance daily, searching for metals, empty canns to pickup for sales just to make a living.

Such children can develop into miscreants or can have any kind of toxic behavior without mindfulness and if along the line some genuinely loving and kind individuals renders any atom of help or kindness to them, such children or even adults may have a double thinking not believing that it's for free.

They are bound to attach some benefits into exploitations from such kindness, they may not believe that that's free, having never seen such support or such benovellency in their entire life, it's difficult to convince such a one that someone can genuinely help them to scale through the huddles of life as is the normal life pattern ordinarily.

For me, "survival against kindness" sort of challenge or characters are mostly built up into some children from broken homes, single motherhood or single fatherhood have done our societies and our families bad, because growing children are meant to be taken proper care of by their both parents... Mothers and fathers living together with their children in their homes, that's their root, their first landing place of birth. Single parenthood is a manece to the children and to our world today, avoid it.

Family background is very important to our world today, to thrive along from childhood, into adulthood. How someone is raised is like a total sum of every other things that would follow that individual choices all along life's challenges, events and intimidations.

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