For me, comfort and confidence are my watch word when dressing up for either occasions, my daily businesses, casual outings, going for shoppings, church services and many other more activities.
My look out and watch word is comfortability. Dressing up does not suppose to be some punishments or chaotic to put someone off balance. Like some ladies I see, they love dearly, tightly fitted outfits to the extent that looking at them, you will surely know that they are not comfortable at all. They would snatch a dress to the extent that they find it very difficult to breathe freely and very well. It's a punishment in the name of being trendy, Nope... I can't subdue myself to such for other people's validation. I wear free and adorable clothes that fits my body type and style
I'm never a complete trendy fashionista or a fashion enthusiat like all of our fashion models, actors, actresses or just like all of those at the glare of every one, some women in particular. But I'm not also out of trendy fashion. I pick up what I admire in a trendy fashion at a time and combine it with my own Idea of what should fit me and give me comfort per time, that's how I roll out in fashion and lifestyle
You know in our modern world today, we have influencers, actors, actresses, fashion models, media personalities, hot content creators, influencers, music icons. They're our everyday....fashionistas. These and more of such classes of people are expected to be very trendy and currently in vogue about all at every trending season and they have to be excessively in vogue and in style daily
Of a truth, such life style is exhausting, I can't cope with it. Therefore I dress for my comfort, confidence, and elegance, creating my own signature as a person by my own choices and styles
Most times, I will visualize and create some styles in my mind with some colour blends, getting to my tailor or to my seemstress, either of them will sew and turn the piece of clothes into beautiful dresses that will create a complete comfort, confidence and acceptance to me... That makes me happy.
I love certain neutral colours blending of two different choices of colours... making me happy, peaceful and having a complete confidence because following trendy wears, clothes that are in vogue, makes anyone forcing herself to be noticed, to remain validated for other people's confirmation and ratings, living a life that way will create a serious wound in the heart of anyone so to say or on any body living in such life style. It's expensive and you will be restless, thinking of how to get the money or the wears in vogue.
Fashions, trendy wears are coming and going very fast and they're so many of them out there, which one would you even grab?, how can anybody have the peace of mind to fulfill such money and time consuming trend.
I wear what suits my own body and makes me comfortable by the style, colour and the fabrics, then I'm not totally out from trends but it is not a do or die affairs for me. And it's okay. I dress well, come out and move on with confidence showcasing my natural elegance, I'm okay and happy that way
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