Everyone hurts. This is a fact of life that we all have to face. And we all get hurt. We all drop things, make mistakes, and generally have bad days. So why it is important to be kind to everyone?
Well first off, we are all individuals so we all get hurt and do things that we're not proud of. It also helps that when someone gets hurt someone gets angry. While it is OK to be angry at someone who hurt you, don't Anger is wrong and can sometimes push someone over the edge.
When I am around angry people all the time I can tell what type of person they are. It's pretty easy to spot the type of person who doesn't really want to help others and who has a problem with helping others. The kind of person who will yell and scream at someone when they get hurt or someone who thinks it's their way to get even.
The first step to healing yourself is not to get upset with yourself. We all get upset with ourselves from time to time, whether it's about something or someone else. You can't let yourself get mad at what your self-esteem is suffering from because you'll only do more damage.
One of the biggest signs of someone who doesn't want to help is that they will tell you that no one likes to be hurt. When I hear this it makes me wonder what other people think about me, what other people think is wrong with me, or what other people think I should do. And it's not just because everyone hurts, everyone feels bad when they get hurt.
Another sign of someone who doesn't want to help is when they will only tell you that you can't do it. Let's be real here...If you are trying to figure out how to get your ex back you have probably been hurt in the past and are feeling horrible right now. And you think that you can only figure out how to fix that by telling yourself that no one likes to be hurt. That logic makes absolutely no sense! Everyone gets hurt from time to time in relationships. So why would you want to keep saying that no one likes to be hurt?
The last sign that you need to be on the look out for, when your ex tries to convince you that no one likes to be hurt, is when they start talking big about money. It's the big question mark that follows that "Who would want to be around someone who is always talking up money?" I'm assuming here that you aren't reading this article because you're stuck in a relationship where your ex wants to take you for every penny and thinks he can get away with it. If that's the case then I'm sorry for calling you so don't give into them. Instead you need to focus your attention somewhere else because your ex is trying to manipulate you in that situation.
The whole point here is that we all make mistakes. And people do act like kids sometimes when they make mistakes. So don't let that mistake get you down. Instead see it as an opportunity to grow and become a better person. Don't let yourself fall into the trap of denial and pity.
When people get hurt, they tend to hold onto that negative emotion for a long time. It might even get them to break up with their ex. When you start holding on to that negative emotion too long, you stop doing what's best for your heart and your long term happiness. This includes letting go of the other person. The only way to accomplish this is to allow the emotions of the moment to pass.
It takes a lot to deal with the pain of breaking up with someone. You might feel angry, upset, and depressed. Even if you're feeling all of these things, the last thing you want to do right now is to hold onto that anger and frustration for too long. The reason is that this type of emotion will only attract negativity. It will attract more drama. And more problems.
If you let yourself feel sorry for yourself, and if you start blaming others for your past actions, then you're only going to attract more negative energy. You are better off letting go of the hurt feelings and moving forward with your life. If you think about it though, everyone hurts. So hopefully, by reading this article, you realize that no one gets hurt when it comes to break ups.
