There are some things you cannot just learn from rationalization or things. You have to experience it. With time, you have to understand the kind of people that aligns with your soul, your wisdom, and your passion.
When it comes to relationships, you might make a lot of mistakes. Things might not go as planned. But with time, you understand why things happen the way it happens and how to correct them.
It doesn't matter who you are or how knowledgeable or how intelligent you are. There are some things that you cannot just learn. You have to make a lot of mistakes.
You have to meet a lot of people so you can know how you can structure your life.
Don't blame yourself for making those mistakes. Don't be cautious. Maybe it's money, health, and failed relationships. Most things are better learned from experience.
And after you have gotten that experience, you have to make sure that you don't neglect it. make such a mistake again in your life so be very cautious of how you lose your life and how things go out for you and know that mistakes are meant to be made and lessons are meant to be learned from those mistakes.