Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that’s the one thing that is going to require the most from you.
- Caroline Myss -
I was 23 when I had my very first trip to a foreign land. It involved traveling abroad where I knew no one except my friend's mother who after receiving me in her apartment, left to have a vacation back home the following day. Well, she did introduce me to her friends and neighbors, most of whom became my acquaintances during my stay.
It was scary, yes, but the urge for adventure was stronger. That solo trip was life-changing for me. It taught me various things including looking after myself. The country impacted my life so much that I visited it 3 more times afterward.
Another was an adventure to a country where not many people understood or spoke English. A corporate job was offered to me and being young and wanting to see places, I said yes to it even when I had my fears and doubts, plus some people were worried. My immediate family was supportive at least, which boosted my confidence.
Little did I know that accepting it would open up many other opportunities and experiences. It taught me to be more independent and it afforded me various solo travels to other cities and some countries, facing challenges, getting lost along the way, rubbing elbows with other people, and gaining some friends with whom I'm still connected today.
“Traveling alone doesn’t always mean you’re alone. Most often, you meet marvelous people along the way and make connections that last a lifetime.”
I was offered a position in the City of Seals sometime ago but because we wanted to spend more time here at home, we said no. Some of my peers said they would do anything to get a chance yet there I was, simply letting it go like it was nothing. "Are you crazy? Recommend me please!" one of them begged.
Did we regret not taking it? Not at all.
Years later, we got another opportunity but for a different country. Along with it was an offer for my husband too. After giving it some thought, we said yes to it and went. That was a learning adventure for both of us and the memories created will always be remembered.
A few more chances came, some of which we have gladly taken, others not, and it's okay.
Sometimes when we are presented with something, we see it as an opportunity and grab it. At times, we feel it will disrupt our peace so we turn it down. And I think there's nothing wrong with that because it concerns us and our decisions are based on the circumstances and what our hearts (and probably reasons) dictate.
The important thing is that we live our lives with little to no regret!
Photos are my own. 23122023/18:32ph
