So, I have a whole story to share how one Apologize could save our years of close Friendship.
We were Friends in school from the day I joined it to years together sharing the same bench, lunch Break to more like school buddies and even sometimes visiting each other place to play games or chit chat.
Anyway, like every friends we had done lot of stubborn things, calling names or fights, sharing answers in exam and don't remember we ever got into fight with each other. Never, until.
Our fight happened
Was just another normal day at school. Bell rings, Teacher is Gone. We Free in class doing discussions with two more friends on backbench.
From nowhere I called him with nickname he got from his people where he lives which was a mistake. Turned out he got mad and got into fight with each other.
I thought will get normal eventually, after class or maybe next day.
When Saying sorry was the Hardest Word
Day or two is gone, we ain't sitting together anymore. I feel bad for saying that and wanted to talk with him to say sorry but something stopped me was how I'll say sorry. This word is easy to write but when you're in a situation than it is the most difficult for some people.
After all, every other day being in same class not talking with each other though have had other friends but not like best one.
Guess, what? Day's turned into Months and Year eventually but I couldn't say sorry neither he tried which was fine if I see from his point of view.
More than 5 Years of Friendship ended in a moment
All because of that one unintentional part of saying a word and not saying sorry.
Sometimes, to heal a relationship or friendship we had to say sorry which doesn't make you ashamed but not saying sorry will make you feel shame.
The everyday, used to say it's too late to say sorry but didn't knew it was never late until our journey was ended, he choose something else, I did something else, left that institute and never saw each other.
Wrapping up...
After all I realized the value of saying sorry when it should be said from this one thing I learnt lesson from and growing up becoming mature.
Also there's another side of it which is saying sorry for no reason that I disagree with it.
Some people expect to hear sorry when it's their own mistake don't know what intentions they have behind it but I have experienced it and don't do apologize when you're right.
This is it in this storytelling which is another chapter of my life. Lessons are learnt in many insane ways sometimes by losing a friend. Hope, you found it interesting and do let me know your thoughts in comments.
Your support is much appreciated. Don't Forget to hit Upvote, Comment and Re-blog.
