Relationships are harder now, I don鈥檛 want to not get married!馃様
Sometimes or should I say most times I get scared when I listen to what people go through in their relationships.
I read this story on Joro鈥檚 blog where a lady was lamenting on how she has been physically and emotionally abused in her relationship by a man she even referred to as her fianc茅.
The annoying part is she was still asking for people鈥檚 advice on what to do.
She was asking people like her that are probably going through the same situation.
I said relationships are harder now because men and women do not even know what it entails, conversations became texting, getting jealous became a habit, people prefer to talk about their issues on social media instead of with their partners.
It is just sad.
I feel like nobody wants to put in that extra effort it takes to make a relationship work.
It does not mean you should remain in a toxic relationship when it is obvious it can鈥檛 work out.
I have seen people who lost their self-worth and dignity just because they believed they cannot do better without the other person. So instead they just keep enduring.
My point is if you know your relationship is not draining you emotionally or physically and it is just petty stuffs that is the issue, make effort to work it out.
But if you are in a toxic relationship, you don鈥檛 feel you are good enough for the person, or you are being abused emotionally by your partner, just please end the relationship.
