Glad to be back here for a week now. I've been struggling with anxiety but trying to stay mindful since I'm still in my training week. For those who missed my previous post, I'm currently in Cebu for work…
First week of our training.
Feeding our hungry tummies.
CEBU TRAINING UPDATE..
Today marks my first month in Cebu since starting my job! I'm currently working in the BPO industry, on a graveyard shift from 10 PM to 7 AM. During our first week of training, we had a 7 AM to 4 PM schedule. At first, my body and mind struggled to adjust to the shifting schedules, but over time, I finally adapted.
In the midst of the busy streets in Cebu. Working 10pm-7am in the morning hits real hard.
During our first week on the graveyard shift, we would all start feeling sleepy around 3 AM while listening to our trainer—some even dozed off! To keep things lively, anyone caught closing their eyes had to do an icebreaker, which usually meant singing or dancing. 😅
My everyday routine for now. Riding 13c going to IT Park, Lahug.
MISSING HOME..
Training has truly been an enjoyable journey, but a part of me still longs for home. I miss my kids, my partner, and the peace and calm of the countryside—no busy streets, no crowds, no pollution, no giant rats the size of cats, and no constant noise! But as much as I wish to be there, it’s not that I have no choice but it's the right choice abd and that's to work and earn a living for my children.
My daily dose of HAPINESS!❤️😍
HOW TECHNOLOGY HELPED ME..
Despite the distance, I’m grateful for the technology we have today. Whenever we miss our loved ones, we can easily connect with them through Messenger. Though we can’t physically hug or kiss them, just seeing their faces on the screen fills us with joy.
My eldest who keeps on encouraging me and saying "YOU CAN DO IT MOM!.❤️🥹
No matter how busy life gets, it’s important to make time to check in, ask about their day at school or home, and let them know they’re always in our hearts. Back when I was a child, we didn’t have this kind of convenience. I still remember my dad working in Manila, sending letters to my mom through the post office. Looking at how far we’ve come, the difference is truly remarkable.
My only princess. I'm sorry if Mama is not there to tie your hair.🥹❤️
MY SUPPORT SYSTEM..
"The family I came from will always be important, but the family I’ve built is my priority."
I know my mom understands that I have my own family now. Though we may be apart, they will always be my first family. But right now, my focus has to be on my own—raising my kids and ensuring they get the education they deserve.
My sweetheart little boy. My youngest.❤️
I've finally realized just how challenging motherhood truly is. No one ever warned me that being a stay-at-home mom feels like juggling eight different jobs in a single day! That’s also why I chose to work—I have more experience in the workforce than my partner, and I want to do everything I can to support my family.
MY PARTNER..
I am incredibly proud of my partner for being the absolute best! While I may not always be the most vocal about my appreciation, deep down, I am truly grateful to have him by my side—even with his nonchalant nature.
My non-chalant partner. The best!❤️
Like any couple, we have our fair share of disagreements and occasional arguments, but one thing I admire about him is his patience and composure. No matter how heated a discussion gets, I have never once heard him raise his voice at me. If anything, I’m usually the one who gets loud! Haha!
Missing you guys.❤️
Beyond everything, what matters most to me is trust, and when it comes to our children, I wouldn’t want anyone else caring for them. He is the only person I can rely on wholeheartedly, knowing that he will always do what’s best for them. Having him as my partner and co-parent is something I cherish every day.
Thank you for being the best dad.😍
WORK/LIFE BALANCE..
Next week marks the beginning of our calls, and I couldn’t be more excited! I just hope I don’t experience a mental block and that I can confidently address all customer concerns. My account is far from an easy job—it requires a lot of effort, critical thinking, and sometimes even overthinking. But I am determined to give it my all because this job means so much to me.
Sharing our simple bond. Working happily with my colleagues. We can do this guys!
Being away from my kids is one of the biggest challenges I face, especially knowing that my one-year-old still longs for a mother’s care. It’s never easy, but my love for them keeps me going. To my little one, please know that I am doing this for you, for your kuya, and for your ate. Every sacrifice I make is for our future, and I trust that in the end, it will all be worth it.
Missing this kind of life in Bohol. But for now, let's grind in Cebu.😅
May the Good Lord bless me with wisdom, strength, and clarity as I take on this journey!
ENDING THOUGHTS..
The family we built is my first priority now. We may have different stories either stay at home mom or working moms, we all do have the same goal and that is to provide what’s best for our kids. Keep on dreaming mommies, we got this!❤️
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my article today! I truly appreciate it.
I wish each of you the best of health—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. May we all be guided with strength, wisdom, and positivity in everything we do.
Wishing everyone the best of luck on their journey! Until next time—take care and stay blessed!
