Welcome here, we left off on our discuss yesterday, and like i stated earlier in episode one, we will all learn this together, so please you can contribute your own quota, am ready to learn..
Today we will have a discuss on what makes divorce come into play, from the significant ones to the really weird reasons... But first we will start with
EMOTIONAL WITHDRAWAL
This stage is very critical in a relationship, it is common in every human at a particular stage in life, now the issue is not being able to handle it maturedly without getting the other hurt or both of you hurt.. Emotional withdrawal can be triggered by anything,some are, lack of self confidence, depression, finances, loss of a loved one, etc.. Some of the symptoms are.. Restlessness, insomnia, irritability, social withdrawal, anxiety, etc..
We all have come to feel some of the above traits one way or the other,we sometimes get to the point of "I WANT TO BE ALONE"..
And yes it is healthy to try sort yourself out a little first, but when you are sharing your life with another, it is essential you know your actions, no matter how trivial or deep gets to them emotionally, and most times we are so bent in our own little world we forget our partner is hurting too, and that alone will create a bridge.. Marriage is a hand in hand togetherness, it should give you a sense of never being alone... Reaching out to your spouse during this time is very vital, talking about your pain and hurt in a calm way not a screaming bout will create a stronger bond
Other factors could cause emotional withdrawal, like an unfaithful partner, etc, but we will get to that part soon enough, love is all about openness, sharing and bonding, for a relationship to be healthy, a healthy level of communication should be in play.. Just stay tuned to this blog, comment, share your ideas, follow me and I'll sure do same.. Till tomorrow... STAY IN LOVE...
