Understanding one another is not necessarily about agreeing. But can't we disagree without verbally killing one another I mean sheesh. Of course we will not agree on many things but something we can learn is to try to listen, understand, and have actual dialogues about things we are debating over. Lastly you have to figure out your role in the world as nations and people groups everywhere are being splintered and pinned against one another. I understand my role very well and embrace it do you? Peace.