Many people spend their lives optimizing for more comfort they wonder why they become more anxious, more depressed more mentally weak when it is just the direct consequence of moving all the frictions and struggles that actually makes us feel connected and oneself and alive.
Many people are going through a lot and they cannot find themselves in any situation where anything can happen to them so that is how life has always been and there is more to this when you always feel you're in the right place.