With positive feedback from the parents motivation and motivation of the child increase, whether it is about learning, tidying up or climbing a particularly tall tree. Depending on where your child is currently standing, it needs the right announcements to start right.
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Children live in the here and now and sometimes find it difficult to undertake tasks such as learning or tidying up. In this case, but also when a child has set himself a challenging task, it helps a lot if parents give a powerful initial motivation. In the process help praise and recognition, but also cheering words. And in the end, when the job is done, you should be happy with your child.
Phrases like "As energetic as you are today, you're done in a hurry!" Or "Come on, I'll help you pick up the blocks." Get your child on the move. Has it started with the task, much has already been achieved.
"Wow, you've already packed the stuffed animals in the basket, that was fast!" Or "Ui, already solved five math problems - and in such a short time!" Are balm for the child and spur on it, with the continue working with the same energy.
In slack phases, a break may be appropriate, for example, when your child is clearly exhausted. If it just does not feel like it anymore, it makes more sense to offer a small reward if the tasks are done quickly.
"I know how stressful it was to clean up for you. It's great that you've done so well! "Maybe" I saw that you had to pull yourself up on the tree with a lot of strength and now you're up there. Great!"
Defeats can not be avoided in life. If the grade is worse than you thought or your child fails in another job, comfort it, but do not regret it. It is better to try it again or to make more effort next time.
