We've read so many articles on LOVE, we've watched so movies about love and we've also had a taste of love one way or another.
But the question is, WHAT IS LOVE?
Love has many meaning, but according to My definition,
1. Kindness
2. Selfless
3. Truthful
4. Patience
5. Humble
| There are more but I'll go with these for this write-up. Loving someone goes beyond telling them you love them, ACTIONS must be involved, so I'll enjoin you to look out for the few I mentioned above. |
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What I Can Do For Love
| I can give my time, my money, my energy for love. I can do everything in my power to keep my loved one away from harm. I can give my words to him by always being there to advise him when he's in need of one. |
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| I can forgo my bad habits for love. I'll stop doing those things that I always love doing (which I know are not good even though I'm addicted to them)for love. |
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How far I can go for love
I can go as far as accepting to be wrong even when I'm right, just to keep peace. I can say sorry, even when I know I did nothing wrong just to win my loved ones.
What I won't do for Love
I won't forsake my life as a Christian for love. For example, in a situation where I'm to go for the gathering with the saints and my loved ones ask me to follow him somewhere else, I won't do that, although I'll make him see reasons with me, so we don't end up having a fight.
Source
Love is a beautiful thing, when you learn to prioritize things properly. Putting your loved one first before God is wrong. If your loved one comes first in your life and there are issues between you two, you tend to start hating love by hating and blaming yourself for ever falling in love.
My little advice to others who want to see love as a beautiful thing, even to this writer is, Put God first in everything, only then can that thing flourish and prosper. From the day you read this post, try placing God at the top of your life before your loved ones then you'll see how things will start changing for the better in your relationship.
Loving God first, helps you to be forgiving and understanding towards people on general, so it's an added advantage to your loved one if you love God first.