I think you are not the only one loving your space. Now self me I don't have any close friend that can come to visit me anytime they like except they call me first.

Your eating routine is what I will say is not healthy, you can eat the right food but if the timing is wrong, it might not be good anymore. I'm also in this category but I'm trying really hard to not continue but be flexible. I'm trying to tell you that you should be careful not to accept it like that, it's not okay, don't say it is.

Well I think most of these things might be a family trait just like you said, so it's sometimes really hard to let go.