It's very refreshing to hear a balanced take (as opposed to overly-ecstatic "it was amazing" posts). It can be brilliant, but also not so much depending on personality type, demeanor, and just plain luck sometimes. I certainly remember feeling quite awkward and out of place at the first one, and a little in the beginning of the one last year. Then again, I think this raises a problem we deal with on Hive more broadly (and perhaps don't address very well) - bridging the connection gap for people who are more quiet, shy, or perhaps just less pushy.

I'm glad you had your moment there though and from the pictures, it seems you had a nice time :) I'm honestly glad.