Hmm much as I love the freedom of looking however I want most days, I have found that putting together an outfit and presenting yourself to the world in a certain "put together" way does change a lot how you feel and how you interact with the world. I find myself more confident and open when I dress in a certain, more elegant way. Though not always, usually when I feel I look good, I am more confident and just the day seems to go more my way. Good luck with your goal, friend :)