I think so, as well. Were there times when you considered moving back, say after the relationship ended? I think that's one of the biggest draws, even if you're not living, say, kids back in another state/country, but missing out on those family moments. But then again, in some ways, it might come at the cost of not making a family (or one that's right for you) of your own. As you said, one must weigh pros and cons.