Dealing with problems, sometimes requires a very serious strategic approach. And one of the best way is to try relaxing your mind to figure out what exactly is the problem and trying to track the root of the problem also.
Many people find difficulty dealing with problems, especially problem that really overwhelmes. Of course there are problems that can be soo overwhelming that you can't figure out all alone.
I think such a Person needs to calm down and put everything in prayers. Because with God, all things are possible, and again try to talk to an elder in the church or your pastor, if it seems so heavy on you, the pastor will surely guide you in the right way.
And note that there is no problem solver other than God.
