Truth be told, it will really lead to serious chaos. Human development varies from person to person. Findings have shown that women's development is faster than that of a man. This is why many women prefer to give birth to a girl before giving birth to a boy because the girl will grow fast to help her out with house chores. If a five-year-old boy and a five-year-old girl are kept side by side and given a task relating to home matters, the girl will do better.
The age of marriage is not mostly stated, but using human instinct, a child should not be married off. On a personal note, I will say that anyone that is below the age of twenty should not be allowed to get married. My daughter is just about four years old; any man who approaches me with the intention of getting married to her at this age will be arrested, and I will mandate that he should be cross-examined. This is because I see it as a form of child abuse.In the primitive age there is something they used to do which is called betrothal. This is a situation whereby a girl child is reserved to be married by someone. So in this case the girl will be engaged, and when she is of age, she will be given out.
Mostly it is not the man that makes the engagement but his parents because in most cases the boy will be too tender to have a choice, but as time progresses he will be informed. In most cases it works well, and in other cases it doesn't end well. Girls should not be exposed to early marriage because the process of birth is not one that is easy, and so the system needs to be well formed before going into marriage and childbirth, though many girls of nowadays don't care about all that.In most cases, age to me is a number.
Putting a stamp on the age differences when it comes to marriage does not make sense to me. The maturity of a man or even a woman is not dependent on age, although age does have a role to play too. What matters in most cases is understanding. When two persons agree to be married and finally come together, the age is inconsequential. Some men will want the woman to always keep calm because they are the man, and the woman will always feel used.
I always say this: if a man is using his age and strength to shout a woman down in the name of being older, a time will come when they get older that the woman will be stronger, so she will keep using that against him. This I have seen play out several times, not as if I was told. The major thing that keeps a home is God's love, understanding, and ability to forgive one another.
Having a good home is not a dependent on if there is age difference that is so large or not. There are people who get married to ladies who are so older than them but their homes are doing well too. Going for a person who will suite into ones purpose drive is the best because purpose will always keep you one the move. Thank you for reading.
