A teacher went on an educational tour with his students. When they went out to visit, they saw a family whose members were shouting and arguing with each other. The teacher looked at his students, smiled and asked ...
"What do you think?" Why do people shout and talk to each other when they are angry? ”
The students thought for a while, then one of them answered, "Because then we lose our peace of mind and shout."
The teacher asked, "But why do we shout?" The person we are angry with is in front of us, we can calmly say whatever we want to say to him. "
Many of the students answered, but none of them were satisfied with their own answers. At the end the teacher explained to them, “When two people get angry with each other, the distance between their hearts increases. For this distance they shout and talk, so that they can understand each other.
The more they get angry, the more the distance increases, and then the more they shout and fight. ”His student relationship with the teacher was very open, so he could understand them better.
"What happens when two people love each other? But they do not shout at themselves but speak in a soft voice. Because their love brings their hearts together. "
The teacher said again, "What happens when the love between two people deepens?"Then they are each other
He can understand everything even if he speaks in a low voice. And at some point they can understand everything by looking at themselves. "
He looked at his students and said, "When you argue with each other, do not use words that increase the distance between your hearts." If it continues like this, then maybe a day will come when this distance will be so great that no more words will reach there, there will be no way to get back from there.
