Glad to know I can be supportive. In my case, I've totally disowned/cut off my own mother and her whole side of the family. My mother is a rancid succubus of Satan. She is the kind of person who forces her unwanted presence upon you and will talk shit about you in your own home and then call you the asshole when you try defending yourself from her. A pure energy vampire. So I had to cut her off completely and she still tries to force her unwanted self upon me trying to play the victim. She purposely signed up for Steemit just so she can troll me and eves drop on me to try and invade my life I refuse to share with her. That is how sick this woman is. She can't accept the fact that she is mentally ill and fucked up as a mother.

I'm not saying you should cut your Mom off completely. If possible just avoid her till she leaves. Stand your ground. Don't let her walk all over you. Be proud of your indigenous heritage and let her know that. I take it your Dad was a shaman? Or at least a native Salish Indian? The reason I ask is if she has such a problem with you and your heritage then why would she fall in love and have a child with an indigenous man if she's resentful of the fact? It doesn't add up. Either way I would just stand your ground and don't let her suck the life and energy out of you. That is what vampires do. You have to find some way to reflect her negativity back at her.