just accept yourself and what you do

Very easy to say without ADHD. I do accept myself but I'm not just talking about hobbies, this is about changing careers. If these are all hobbies they are fine to change as long as I have a "stable" stream of income. But if I can't make up my mind about what I want to do then it's not good career-wise. It's like you've already achieved manager status then suddenly changing career into a completely different field as a minimum wage then so on.

There is a reason why ADHD is a disability. It's not just about not being able to focus but executive function as well.