The best way to fuck up somebody you care about is to de legitimize their person pain.

I grew up in a horror house. When i told my mom of the abuse i was facing with my father, the bullying at school and the destruction of my mental well being when i was a young boy. Her response was to start singing "nobody likes me, im going yo go eat worms" that was her response to a hurting seven year old boy.

It fucked me up for 30 years before i was able to work through the shit. Now i see a deeply pathological world. Especially here in the usa.

The scary thing is since theyre pathological they dont know theyre pathological. Thats a big part of the problem or as you say normalizing insanity