GOAL
Goal is a result that one is attempting to achieve his or her ambition, it's a desire one put all his efforts to achieve it.
There are two types of goal which i explained below then you will know the one you fall under
Short Time Goal: this is goal that is easy to achieve, you may be doing business or something, before you know it, you have already bloom, things will be booming for you within a short period of time.
Long Time Goal: this is goal that is not easy to achieve, it takes a long time to achieve, this kind of goal need patient to achieve it, people that falls under this goal always make mistake because they want fast achievement. Just be patient and continue what you are doing, it's just a matter of time before you will start to make it.
People are always feeling bad about themselves, because they are not making it, they become inferior about themselves.
You and your classmates/course mate graduated the same time doesn't give you a Guarantee that you will make it the same time with them, everyone has there own time to achieve it, so stop condemning yourself for no reason, if you start thinking about it now you be diagnosed with depression, my dear depression is real, just because your mates have achieved there own goal, you start to look down on yourself, you start thinking that your life is the worse, if all the rich people in the world tell you their story about how they were able to reach the stage they are in now, you will be surprised.
You don't know when they started struggling before they were able to eat the fruit of their labour.
If your goal is a long time goal, then just accept it and start working on it than being frustrated about life, just be happy for people that have a short time goal, before you know it you will start booming in no time and when it does other will be happy for you, just like someone special to me always say "It may be late but it will be the latest".
When people are too desperate to achieve their goal by all and any means they fall into the wrong path, when they see that their goal is a long time goal, they decided to follow the shortcut thinking it's the best, just be patient with it, one day your long time goal will start booming, just be patient and forsake that damn shortcut.
Characteristics Of Goal
Goals Are Not Dynamic: you own can never change what that is meant for you. there is an adage that says "destiny can be delayed but can never be denied" as long as God is in control and you believe in God it will come to pass because if A Is for you, no matter how many B you have A is waiting for you.
Goals Move From Stage To Stage: they provide plans for you to grow bigger. If you are working on your goal, you will see yourself moving higher from one step to another step, you will see a new things in your life as long as you are working on it
Goals Must Be Scored: One thing in life is having a goal and another is scoring the goal. you have a goal for a reason and no matter what, that goal will not stop appearing to you till you score it.
Goal Can Be Scored By A Team : No much emphasis to be layed here, goal in life is like a goal in football sometimes more than one person contribute to have it scored.
