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What causes arrested development
We are designed in a very simple way, when it comes to learning, we have to simple mechanism that work together to avoid danger and self correct course when you deviate from it. The first mechanism is
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How to recover your internal autonomy
The general purpose of abuse is to erase someone autonomy, in order to make him take decisions that are more in the advantage of the abuser. To recover from the abuse is to undo the process of having your
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We are treating abuse with abuse
Psychology and psychiatry remain largely unsuccessful branches of medicine, regardless all the modern technologies and advancements we have today. I have a feeling that we are not failing to treat people
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How to stop being manipulated
People who are manipulating you are very uncomfortable with rejection, so their behaviour and words they chose are specifically design to create the illusion that you can't say NO. It is an attempt to
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What does it means to be humble
Humility is the virtue that exists between anxiety and arrogance. To be anxious means to believe that something bad is going to happen to you in the future even when is very unlikely. Not to confuse anxiety
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What does it mean to deserve something
We sometime get the wrong impression that simply because we exist we deserve to have everything we want. Especially in today's world of participation trophies, where everybody seems to be more concerned
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Why trying to change the world is problematic!
Changing the world is a colossal task, a huge burden one can put on his shoulders. Some of the most stressed people i ever meet are people who are trying to change the world. Not only you are taking
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What does it means to have patience
Victims of long term abuse not only have significant deficiencies and a scattered mind but they are also in a time crysys, because their time was wasted by the abuse they experienced chronic loss instead
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Why You Shouldn't Fake It Until You Make It
I have made a mistake, in some of my past posts I wrote that the first step of the recovery process is honesty. As a result of some recent experience I do no longer hold that to be truth, It takes humility
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What does it mean to be spiritual
We discussed in previous post the toxic effect of admiring and worshiping a hero in any given areas of your life. Like how the exchange between the worshiper and the hero is by definition an uneven and
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What does it mean to have integrity!
You have three tasks to accomplish in this life, you have to provide for your needs in order to survive, you have to reproduce and avoid immediate danger in order to survive long enough. Someone with integrity
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Hedonists need Heroes!
There is a dependent relationship between hedonist and heroes, this two types of archetypes can't exist without each other. Hedonist need people to admire to voyeuristically live their boring underachieving
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Why Life is Long!
There is an increasing epidemic of nihilism, people living life without a purpose, finding life short, meaningless and found themselves hopelessly trapped in less than favorable situation. For which the
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Iodine the missing link
Iodine is one of the nutrient that our diets becomed deficient in, between the soils being depleted by modern agriculture techniques to the fact that western and European diets don't generally include
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Electromagnetic hypersensitivity syndrome is not a myth!
It is a cliche often used to mock people and make them look crazy, they are often portrayed in movies and TV-shows as crazy people with irrational fears of electronics like in the TV show "Better
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Patience is the antidote to anxiety!
Time is a decisive factor in anxiety, if you know you are going to die in fifty years from now this fact is not very anxiety provoking, because fifty years is a very long time from now, so there is nothing
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Authority is Competence!
If I am one of the best people in an certain field, like for example if I am a doctor that is really good at doing a certain type of surgery. Other doctors and patience are going to naturally be very
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There are only three virtues!
Attempting to better yourself as a person, means to cultivate and act in accordance with certain principles based on virtue. It can be very confusing to do that because there are so many different virtues
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The Socialist Love Program!
Like the workers from a socialist factory, that are protected by the unions and they are almost impossible to be fired. The quality of the work they do dramatically decreases instead of working really
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The difference between Knowledge and Truth
Knowledge can be a lot of things it can be fiction, correct information, speculation or a lye. Truth on the other hand it is only one thing it doesn't change no matter of the circumstances that you are
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