Who is man in a world whose life is never colored by failure? Everyone must have his business and his struggle to achieve something. Failure and disappointment will color every step.
It is normal and very normal we actually feel afraid to fail. It is undeniable that failure can be as incarnate as a monster that continues to haunt us. It's like a dark cloud ready to shower us with lightning at every step. It's just that if we constantly feel afraid to fail, when can we reach the top we want?
Every Successful Person Has Failed Once
Call it J.K Rowling, the famous author of Harry Potter. He used to be a single mother whose work was rejected by a number of publishers. But he still struggled and survived. The result? In 2004, he was named the first author to become a billionaire.
"Every successful person has had to overcome the fear of failure."
- Debasish Mridha
Even the famous Walt Disney was once fired from Kansas City Star. The reason is because he is considered to have no imagination and no interesting idea. A number of businesses also failed. But look now, his name is very legendary and his works loved by children around the world.
Everyone who now looks successful had once also fallen and failed. Even failures are faced not just once or twice. Moreover, they have to pass many tests and challenges before they can succeed and prove their greatness.
Removing fear completely may be impossible. But we still have the power to control it. Instead of getting yourself trapped in fear, try to convert to new fuel and motivation.
"Burn your fear of failure with the fire of desire so that you may open the door of success."
- Debasish Mridha
No fear of failure, as long as no fear of trying. Even with the fear of failure itself we can be more motivated and driven to do something better than before, stepping and running faster than ever. Normal and legitimate fears, but most importantly we keep trying to open the door or even create a new door.
Ladies, whatever dreams and desires you want to realize soon, do not give up easily. Keep trying, keep trying step by step. If it fails how? If it fails, be sad but not for long. After that gather the courage and new spirit to continue your steps.