We need to help each other, but do not help people make it put the problem to us.
When we try to help others, we should not replace him with his problems.
Everyone has a problem and everyone gets a positive score on how to solve the problem.
Help others solve the problem, do not take the problem of others to bear our own.
When we help others, we and he overcome at least two problems.
When we take over other people's problems, we will be hassle twice while others lose the opportunity to gain positive points from their efforts