Many woman don’t know this. Man don’t either. But it is a crucial problem in a relationship. When one partner wants more and the other doesn’t want to, it can damage a relationship. Thousands of woman are taking anti-conception with oestrogen in it. I completely support the fact that woman can control, if they want children or not, but the fact is that birth control is not a good thing for a woman’s body and in many cases lowers her libido sometimes even to zero.
I knew this, as a chemist, still the doctor recommended to me to take oestrogen for a month because of a heath problem. I took it reluctantly, but understood it did need to be done . The effects were devastating. I went from a strong stable woman with lusts, to labile and with no desires.
There are many couples out there, where the males are complaining that she has no desires. I know, this could be because of other reasons than anti-conception. There are other factors that can cause woman to become cold.
But if a woman is experiencing a lack of desire and doesn’t understand the cause, it is very simple to give it a try to eliminate oestrogen out the equations and see if the natural balance of live comes back. Luckely for me after the month was over, the oestrogen left my body, and my sexual desires returned. Now the only thing left to do is not to have accidentally another child ;-)
