Hello everyone!
I come up with new thoughts to share with you!
Everyone's personality is nourished and exists through the pluses and minuses of this life - its pains and pleasures. This indicates that, without them, it could not exist and, last but not least, that it does not really exist. Try a simple giving up exercise and you will find that you feel like you are disappearing. A feeling not at all easy to bear, as if you dissolve... And then the EGO comes into play that does everything to survive. It is the one that chains us and frees us at the same time, carrying us on the waves of these pluses and minuses. Therefore, when someone falls in a deep love, it disappears and the person in question is perceived as lacking their own identity. Labels such as "obsessed, pampered, puppy, boring, or emotionally addicted" are not uncommon.
It is interesting to note how an undissolved personality feels permanently threatened because, out of fear, it is made up and nourished. In interpersonal relationships, it will be nourished by the personality of the other who offers both negative and positive feebacks. There must be moments of sadness in order to have those of happiness, moments of repulsion to return to attraction, moments of contempt to revive appreciation.
The personality will always run away from a man who can fall deep into Love because he will perceive this love as an inappropriate and stupid veneration. But love can lead you beyond the Ego... You see the Godness from the one next to you, see through its Ego, know its shadows and you can accept them. Because they're his.
Thank you for reading!
