Oh isnt it amazing (and sometimes sooo annoying) that the body can be so "in your face" when there are things to heal NOW?! I dont know if this might help, but if you think about it, trees have the amazing ability to be totally grounded in their roots (stability) and then they get to flow totally wild in the wind (freedom)...if you looked at both the top and bottom separately you almost wouldn't think its the same thing! Maybe theres some work to be done around this idea??? IDK?! Just what popped into my head as I was reading your post :)