馃ズYour recklessness hurts me馃ズ/馃ズTu imprudencia me lastima 馃ズ ING-ESP
Hi guys. I hope you are doing great and that this week is full of wonderful moments and opportunities I want for you. Today I want to talk to you or vent a little and tell you about things that have happened and I think many will relate to this.
Over the years I think we all go through highs and lows, mostly we go through changes in our bodies. There have been times and things that have hurt me in the past. It is said that bullying always starts at home and I agree with that I think it is a very accurate phrase and I really think I identify with this, since, in the past I was always an insecure girl.
As you will notice in my pictures, the space between my eyebrows and my hair is quite wide, so my family used to call me nicknames, they called me "frentona", "frente de papa", "Cara de papa", among many other things. The worst of all was that being so small, this offended me, I felt ugly, that I didn't fit in and many times they made me cry.
As a teenager I started to opt for hairstyles that covered that part of my face, there is always that person who wants to make you feel bad about your physique and I think that happens everywhere.
Hola chicos. Espero est茅n muy bien y que esta semana sea llena de momentos maravillosos y oportunidades quiero para ustedes. Hoy quiero hablarles o desahogarme un poco y contarles sobre cosas que han sucedido y creo que muchos se identificar谩n con esto.
A lo largo de los a帽os creo que todos pasamos por altos y bajos, sobre todo pasamos por cambios en nuestro cuerpo. Hubo momentos y cosas que me han lastimado en el pasado. Se dice que el bullying siempre empieza desde el hogar y yo estoy muy de acuerdo con ello creo que es una frase demasiado certera y realmente creo que me identifico con esto, ya que, en el pasado siempre fui una ni帽a insegura.
Como notar谩n en mis fotos, el espacio entre mis cejas y mi cabello es bastante amplio, por lo cual mi familia me pon铆a sobrenombres, me llamaban frentona, frente de pap谩, Cara de papa, entre otras much铆simas cosas. Lo peor de todo era que siendo tan peque帽a, esto me ofend铆a, me sent铆a fea, que no encajaba y muchas veces me hac铆an llorar.
Con la adolescencia empec茅 a optar por hacerme peinados que cubrieran esa parte de mi rostro, siempre hay esa persona que quiere hacerte sentir mal respecto a tu f铆sico y creo que eso sucede en todos lados.
It seems unfair to me that people take what they would call your defects to hurt you. And it is that yes, although sometimes we try to turn a deaf ear there comes a time when this affects you people do not look at the tone in which they tell you things, do not look at how much they can affect you psychologically and I find it stupid that they make a comment about your body that you already know you have.
There are people who call you fat but they don't know the reason why you are that way. Many assume that it is simply because you eat too much, because you want to and they don't see that behind this there may be an even bigger problem that may be psychological, metabolism and you are not necessarily that way because of what they think, likewise for people who are skinny.
I am a mother of a one year old girl and she is still breastfeeding because of that I keep losing weight, I get up at dawn to breastfeed her, I have dark circles under my eyes and my hair is falling out, in a way I prioritize her health and well being instead of my own, many times I do not get dressed up when we go out, but I focus so much on making her look very pretty that I forgot that I can also look like that. I get a lot of satisfaction from seeing that my daughter looks beautiful that she is always clean even if she is criticized for it.
Me parece Injusto que las personas tomen lo que ellos llamar铆an defectos de ti para lastimarte. Y es que s铆, aunque a veces intentemos hacer o铆dos sordos llega un momento en el que esto te afecta las personas no miran el tono en el que te dicen las cosas, no miran cu谩nto pueden afectarte psicol贸gicamente y me parece est煤pido que hagan un comentario sobre tu cuerpo que ya sabes que tienes.
Hay personas que te llaman gorda pero no saben la raz贸n por la cual est谩s as铆. Muchos asumen que es simplemente porque comes demasiado, porque as铆 lo deseas y no ven que detr谩s de esto puede haber un problema a煤n mayor que puede ser psicol贸gico, de metabolismo y no necesariamente est茅s as铆 por eso que ellos piensan, de igual manera para las personas que son flacas.
Soy mam谩 de una ni帽a de un a帽o y a煤n lacta debido a eso sigo perdiendo peso, me levanto en las madrugadas a darle pecho, tengo ojeras y se me est谩 cayendo el cabello, en cierto modo priorizo su salud y su bienestar en vez de la m铆a, muchas veces no me arreglo cuando vamos a salir, sino que me enfoco tanto en que ella est茅 muy bonita que me olvid贸 que yo tambi茅n puedo verme as铆. Siento mucha satisfacci贸n de ver que mi hija est谩 hermosa que siempre est谩 limpia aunque sea criticada por ello.
There is always the comment, "You look so sloppy, you should clean up your act more! I have been told this many times, even though I believe it is true, I try as much as possible not to pay attention to it because I already know it.
Don't be one of those people who highlights what you consider bad, you don't know how much you can hurt that person who tries to minimize those details, just to move on, don't focus on that and see beyond what you have to give.
Nunca falta el comentario 隆est谩s muy descuidada deber铆as de arreglarte m谩s! Me lo han dicho muchas veces, a pesar de que creo que es cierto intento en lo posible no ponerle atenci贸n a eso porque ya yo lo s茅.
No sean de esas personas que resalta lo que ustedes consideren malo, no saben cu谩nto pueden lastimar a esa persona que intenta minimizar esos detalles, simplemente para seguir adelante, no enfocarse en eso y ver m谩s all谩 de lo que tienen para dar.
A hug from a distance and take care of yourselves.
un abrazo desde la distancia y cu铆dense mucho.
Photos taken by Huawei Y9 Prime
Translation by Deepl
Edited with canva
Fotos tomadas por Huawei Y9 Prime
Traducci贸n por Deepl
Editado con canva