One day there was a mother who was angry and often scolded her child.
Then he was determined to reduce his anger and the mother had come to see Grandfather wisely, after listening to all the stories of the mother then the wise grandfather gave a bag of nails and told the mother to nail a nail in the back fence every time he was angry
The first day she had nailed 48 nails to the fence every time she got angry
Then gradually the number decreases
He found that it was easier to hold his temper than to nail the fence
Finally the day came when the mother felt able to control her anger fully and no longer quickly lost her temper.
He tells this to the wise Grandfather, who then suggests that he pull a nail for every full day where he is not angry.
The days went by and the mother finally told the wise grandfather that all the spikes had been uprooted by her.
Then the grandfather guided the mother to the fence You have done well with my child but, look at the holes of this nail, this wooden fence, will never be the same as before,
when you say something in anger to your child
your words leave marks like this hole in your child's heart and others
You can stick a knife at someone, then pull out the knife but no matter how many times you apologize The cut will still exist
And do you know that the wounds of words are just as bad as the physical injuries are even more painful because they are kept in the subconscious of your son
Take a minute of our time to reflect on this