Today I have seen such an amazing contest I never seen before. I feel this topic extremely amazing I think every user should write once upon this topic. It's my turn so I am going to explain why I choose this username?
Like I have read so many entries in this contest nobody say I randomly selected my username just as my real name. But that's me I choose it on my real name and I am so proud of it. Halima is my name which is suggested by my grandpa anybody of you seen ertugal gazi serial ? It's Turkish series in which halima sultana is queen of ottoman empire that character give me true feminine energy hehe.
I write "01" in front of it because I had one daughter. One seems lucky to me so instead of choosing any random number to fix my username I choose one I know no body of us ever think that somebody even choose number with reasoning. Yeah I did it so. Because I choose my name as my always and forever username.
What if I need to change this username? What choice should I select that must be "positivesoul01". Because I think that the generation that is coming up today or the generation of 20s, has a lot of depression and things like that that are making them lonely. If you ever came in touch with a teenager girl, she will feel even more lonely than a parent in an old age home so my motive is that I can give a positive message to such people and create positive behavior in other people with my positivity so that they don't consider themselves depressed or anxious. In short, I want to be revolutionist who change the generational habbit that is growing inside them. Same reason for the number.
I am going to tell you about the one of the harsh reality that we couldn't resist.
Day before yesterday, I visited one of her posts in which she had stated that she wanted to choose the teaching field but her father did not agree. However, with the passage of time, her father agreed and she chose the teaching field. So I commented on her post that she did not give up and won in life, but my sister, who had same situation, lost.
Today I am going to tell you the whole story. That make me feel "moment of realization".
My sister had completed her degree, after which she wanted to enter the teaching field, but my father explained it to her a lot and said:
"Girls do not work in our society and anyone who works here is considered worse"
We have only one brother and he was dearer to us we used to sacrifice everything for him. That day, my sister only wanted that she could share the knowledge she had gained with people by becoming teacher.
I talked to my brother because he was older than me. I felt that we should definitely take his advice but unfortunately his thinking disappointed me a lot he broke my trust I never expect him to came like this. He said:
"Why do you struggle so much when you have to run the house and you don't need to teach or do any job to become a housewife. Earning money is a man's job, not a woman's, so stay at home."
When I spoke to him in my favor, he said that you people have lost your mind by sitting at home. You should arrange a marriage so that this passion should end, this was the same brother to whom we used to give our happiness with both heart and soul, we used to think about him before ourselves.
Finally, a few days later, a woman passed by our house who brought a picture of a boy for my sister. My sister cried a lot that day and said that she wanted to continue her career, but no one at home listened to her. I also fought a lot at home, but no one listened to me either. Finally, she got married. After marriage, she tried to continue her career, but she failed because after a marriage, girls have many other things to do which take them far away from her career.
This is disaster it's not just moment of realization. After this, I stop trusting my brother because I realize he is not going to support us either he want to maintain his "respect and dignity in the society".
@les90