There are some people that we have judged wrongly and it was when we got closer to them that we realized that the opinion we had about them were totally different from who they really are.
The way we have judged many people wrongly is the same way many people might have also judged us wrongly too , some people have some weird opinion about us and many of those things are not true but that is what they think of us.
We need to be less judgmental towards our fellow humans because sometimes our judgements will not always be correct and we might destroy a potential relationship simply because we were too quick to judge the other person without even allowing them to prove themselves to us.
We should first try to get to know a person better and try to communicate with them before we make our conclusions on our opinion towards them , giving an assumed opinion about them without knowing them first is not the right way to go.
If you do not move close to them, you will not be able to know them better and since you do not know them enough then it will be totally wrong to start judging them even when you know little or nothing about them..
There are some people that I have also judged wrongly , I thought that they were rude and I judged them as people that are rude but later I found out that they were opposite of what I thought , I am sure that there might also be some people who might have some untrue opinion about me and I know how hurtful it can be when someone judges you wrongly.
Wrong judgement can have bad effects on the reputation of a person especially when you keep spreading a negative judgement about the character of the person and some other people got convinced about your judgement towards that person.
Some people are feeling hurt right now because someone or some people judged them wrongly and that has made them to experience alot of pains and condemnation..
We should be careful before making judgements on anyone , we should not just assume our own judgements is the right one , often our judgements could be totally false or wrong so we should not always make ourselves feel our judgement towards another person is right..
Why should we even become the chief judge of others? Who said it is always right for us to keep judging people whenever we just feel like or whenever we want..
If we do not want to be judged wrongly then we too should stop judging others wrongly too.
So if you know someone and you feel you do not know them well , it is better you communicate with them and get to know them better instead of you to just jump into conclusions and start making some certain judgements about them and sadly most of the judgements you have about them might not even be correct..
So judge less and communicate more..