If you really want to have your life upgraded then i believe that the The first thing you should do is to first of all work on your relationships, your life cannot be upgraded if you are still in those relationships which are
Known to be parasitic, relationships that are nonproductive, the toxic
Kind of relationships.. your life cannot be upgraded when you are busy moving around with people who lack ideas and foresight...
1..A person with the personal life which is so filled with toxic individuals will definitely have a problem and such person would not be able to have a good life ,so you have to remove yourself away from toxic individuals and you need to quit any form of toxic/wrong relationships..
Infact the top of your priorities should be how to eliminate those bad relationships.., your life cannot be upgraded if you do not stay away from toxic people who does not add value to your life .. you have to stay away from toxic people that will only keep making you have regrets..
2..Work on your mood..
You should understand your mood and how to deal with it, working on your mood will make you to have total control over your thoughts and feelings , it will make you to know how to explore your inner strengths and use it to live your daily life..
Understanding how to control your mood will make you have influence over your thoughts towards making the right decisions...
3..Be guided..
Guidance is needed if you truly want your life to be upgraded, you should have priorities and protect it every way you can.. ask yourself what are your goals? What do you want to achieve at a particular period, what do you plan to do concerning the goals, what made you believe you can reach those goals, those questions will be your form of guidance to make you focus on what you ought to do if your want your life upgraded, it makes you to have a sense of commitmment towards the goals that you have , the more committed you are to the goals the more you will have the chances to upgrade your life the way you want it to be..
4..Surround yourself with the right people..
After you have moved far away from those toxic individuals that have no value, it is time to look for new individuals that are going to be of help to your life , it is time for you to surround yourself with those people that will give you great ideas and inspire you alot , those individuals that have so much knowledge to give out to you, individuals that you can rely on , individuals that you can trust and you can always hold responsible for their actions..
The types of people you surround yourself with will determine if it will be possible for your life to experience upgrade or if the life will just remain stagnant and idle..
So pick the right people to be around you if you want to have a cool life.