Lack of courage is always a bigger obstacle than lack of talent. Getting where they are will actually verticalize you against all the non-ethical behavior that you used to tolerate just because you are not at church.
Beware of people who are always victim to in other stories. So you think the whole world is judging you when you are used to judging the whole world.
No one cares about you. You can't blame anyone else for the mismanagement of your own life. There's nothing more attractive than a clear mind who knows what they want. So it's a matter of you are the less you actually worry.
Either getting things done or figuring out how to get things done. There's no time wasted on acting like you did it. You're not having the authenticity which comes as part of the game.