Today, you were the blaming the traffic because you are late but last night you were watching a full series in Netflix. Last Monday you were complaining how your head hurts but you don’t realize you drink too much on John’s birthday. In your situation you always blame other people or the circumstances if something not good happened to you.
You can hate the product all you want. The problem is not the product, it’s the pattern. For Christian, we often blame God for the blessing that He didn’t give, we often blame other people of the opportunities we can not have. But the problem is not what other people did to you, what they said to you, what didn’t do for you. THE PROBLEM IS THE PATTERN OF YOUR RESPONSE.
You can’t change the product if you don’t change the pattern. You can’t change the relationship if you don’t start being kinder. You can’t change how people respond to you if you don’t start sewing some good seed. You can’t change your career is going if you don’t start changing your work ethics and work habit. You can't change your wisdom if you don’t change your input. SO THE PROBLEM IS THE PATTERN.
When I speak negatively about others even in a joking way, I’ve notice that it creates a pattern of negativity, a pattern of judgement. God says if you judge to others beware you’ll be judged yourself. I always thought that other people going to judge me if I judge others----- if you speak judgmental words and judgmental thoughts, you turn on yourself because you started a pattern of judgement in your mind. Now the enemy held you and created your own pessimism. PRODUCT: YOUR OWN BEST ENEMY.
So often, millenials complain how depressing it is to live life after watching 13 Reason, how about try watching “Hector and The Search for Happiness”. Yes, we have bad days but you don’t have to trigger your own bad days. Happiness it’s a choice. It is for you to choose it.