I don't know if to call it growth or maturity but am sure it's at the process of one of them that I had this particular experience or perhaps phase. Pardon my manners I almost forget, good day Ladies and Gentle Men, you are with your favorite host plus so just relax as I bring in some juicy premium gist on how life changes with bigger impact.
The mindset I grew up seeing is the one that a lady has to depend on a man to do alot of things most especially those single ladies that are not yet married, you would see that a lady would have to date a guy before the make new hair, new clothes, new phones and many more and this has make the concept of that word dating be related to just sex and paying of bills for the ladies most especially, so this kind of mindset is what we saw while growing and what we are seeing now which can be very very mind polluting and limits growth in many aspect for ladies, moving forward from this phase to another phase which I call reality check and responsibilities pilling.
Luck for me as the society polluted innocent me with such image my family depicted a very different image where I saw my Mum take up responsibilities in the family as well as my Dad and most times my mom would sit we the ladies down and tell us what life demands of us and how we have control and power over things in our lives when we earn to pay our bills rather than depending on a man to do that for us, and I can proudly say my family played a major role in my rapid growth plus maturity financially, emotional and physically, so embracing this change wasn't as difficult as it seems before now.
As I embraced this reality I didn't only feel the impact but I also enjoys little little privileges that many young ladies around me don't, for instance situations where I see other students calling different man whom they seem to be in a relationship with to pay their house rent which is already due and I would be there doing my business online comfortably raising funds ahead of time to pay my rent, so you see this Change didn't just bring positive impact but peace, control, better choices and many more.
So please this goes to both our beautiful Ladies and Gentle Men to not depend on others most especially partners for just everything.
It's a privilege to have had you here, see you next time 😘.
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