If there is something I have actually come to discover about this life, it is the fact that there are something's we can not run away from. Failure is actually something everyone of us did not want to encounter but the truth is, we will always face it at one point. Growing up, I always see failure as something evil and which actually we always run away from. The truth is, failure is part of those things that bring growth whether we like it or not.
Of course our brain is designed to always reject failure and it is quite understanding. Our brain does not like pain, challenges or anything that will threaten our peace and makes us to leave the comfort zone but the truth is, that is what failure does to us most of the time. For me, even though failure comes with so much disappointment at times that might be quite difficult for us to handle but I have actually come to discover is that we can not deal without it.
I actually look back to my life and I discovered that I have really learnt a whole lot of things and that is because I actually attempted something's and which opened my eyes to certain things. I personally love been a learner. There was a time I was interested in learning coding I mean those ones they used python. I even started few months learning some of them but I was facing so much struggle in it that I quit along the way.
Why do I actually give up? I was having this fear that i might know this or probably I might be faced with some challenges that at the end of the day will not allow me to keep it going. In fact I really have that strong passion during the lockdown but the more I experienced frustration during the way.
Actually looking back many years later, I will say I really regret the action of giving up. Assuming I kept going, probably I might have really master it and even start making money from it badly. I really wish I can just go back to time and learn it again. But then I didn't really have that mindset that at every point, you will face a lot of failure but that does not mean you should give up, it should mean you should be more motivated to succeed. In fact, those errors I was facing back then when trying to write the code and syntax pushed me to give up instead of I should have been motivated to keep going.
But I am grateful to God for life because at one point or the other, life always have a way of giving us a second chance. This is roughly around 4 years later and I can confidently say that I have started a new journey on YouTube automation. Even though I have experience a lot of failure in that path since the beginning of this year, I am not ready to quit or stop going. I have told myself that I will keep going and keep pushing no matter what. In fact, I have been able to learn a whole lot of new things and new skills in juts for the past 3 months.
Don't get me wrong, there are days I actually feel like giving up but I keep reminding myself that is how life is. So many of us will have actually achieve success if only we keep persistent but we were not. Now we are really paying for it. If you want to be successful, you need to understand early that failure is part of the game but nevertheless, you need to keep going. The failure you encounter does not define you, it is the success you achieved that define you. Stay till the end and watch the magic work for you.
