Sometimes we learn life from our own personal experience, other time we learn from people's experience. Whichever way we learn everyday.
But I prefer to learn from others people's experience, this is because they have the knowing and experience to guild and advice one in the wright part.
Having said that, here are few things i wished someone had told me before I get to my 30s.
I wished someone had told me that Nobody is judging me as much as I think. Most people are too busy worrying about themselves.
That my appearance matters less than my presence. People remember now we made them fell.
And I wish someone had told me that Being consistently available isn't kindness, it's often people pleasing and sometimes it's been taken for granted.