Being with a person who accepts you as who you really are, totally, opens both parties up to each other. It opens up a true trust in a relationship which allows partners to build up more closeness and connect. It can also enhance a relationship when true acceptance replaces non-acceptance.
If you have been around other couples for a long time you might have noticed that some people seem to thrive on acceptance while others seem to thrive on rejection. There is a difference between the two that has been proven in studies for decades. People who have high levels of acceptance tend to have much higher self esteem. The opposite is true if they are rejected.
When you feel rejected you can experience negative effects in our body and mind. It can cause us to become more defensive or depressed. It may cause us to avoid contact with the people we care about. These negative reactions can be a real turn off and can lead to feelings of loneliness and low self esteem.
The best way to ensure you receive acceptance is to show love for yourself. Letting go of your negative thoughts and behaviors. And loving yourself for all the amazing things you have. You need to be loving to the person you are and be sure to express that to the person you want to build a strong and loving relationship with.
To love someone means you must love yourself. It is possible to love someone without giving them love. In fact it is quite easy. The most powerful love in the world is a kind of love that has no expectations, only love.
Love comes from a place where you have let go of all the reasons you think a certain way. It is a feeling of accepting responsibility and accepting the things that you do and say. It is a love that allows you to accept all your mistakes with grace and dignity. This type of love will allow you to let go and accept others into your life with no guilt.
If you feel you have let go of all of the reasons you were born with then let go of all your fears and insecurities. and let the love come out and you will feel complete.
When you have this new found love, you must let it stay in your heart and mind. Allow it to be in your relationships. Remember, you can't let go of love just because you have been rejected...