Most of the people are just people who are under regression with optimism, with infinite patience when it comes to trying again.
The most depressing people are not seeking to impress, they are just focused on doing what they love. They say money isn't important after they grow up with twins.
They say marriage isn't that important after they grow up with loving parents. They say higher education isn't that important after they went to a layer school.
People love to kick the ladder away for after they climb it. It takes intelligence to not take things personally. Never underestimate your own ability to ruin what you have.
Life loves to strike when you start going over confidence. If you get offended easily, you end up surrounded by liars. They won't tell you to fix your life, sir. It's more profitable to set peace than confrontation.