I think that’s the key difference, making your own decision while still keeping your spouse informed. Do you think that should apply even to small decisions?

Exactly, some are trying to draw them in, while some are also trying to push them out all in the name of "discipline". It's well...

Amen. And you too. I just see some things as wickedness and being mean and lack of leadership character. Because if that person isn't wicked and has the needed qualities to lead, such person won't even

Really? They no longer flog?

Exactly. Because in the real sense, we Gen Z generation usually loose interest very fast in things. Going to church is already becoming a problem, now imagine beating them. Isn't that signal to chase them

Better ways? You can tell them to stand out throughout the class, clean the church environment if necessary. But not beating...

It sounds so ridiculous to be honest. Because why beat them when there are other methods. It's a church, even in schools, punishment always has limits talkless of church. Common 😂

I understand😂😅 sometimes you just want to know what your partner thinks, even when your mind is already made up. Do you think discussing it can sometimes change the decision?

Yes, accountability matters, especially when you’re teaching others how to live. Do you think people watch leaders actions more than their sermons?

That’s fair. I also think the issue is more about consideration than permission. If the roles were reversed, would you expect the husband to do the same?

Exactly, I think that’s where consultation comes in. Being one doesn’t mean losing individuality, but major decisions should still be communicated. Do you think there are decisions a spouse can make completely

Supported @favytom @popurri My entry;

That sudden shift from a normal school morning to soldiers showing up with a list of names was chilling. I could almost feel Daniela’s confusion because nothing about that morning prepared her for what

The “don’t drink water in his class” rule alone tells me what kind of teacher Mr. Adewale was😂🤣 but honestly, the fact that you still taught yourselves his way after he left says a lot about the mark

I’m with you on the consultation part, but I’d still distinguish consultation from seeking permission. In marriage, some decisions deserve to be discussed because they affect both people. Do you think

That part is definitely ironic🤣😂 but I wouldn't assume she would be hypocritical just from this situation. Couples can genuinely believe in a principle and still handle one situation differently. Do

I agree that informing him would have been better, but “totally wrong” might be too strong without knowing their understanding as a couple. Maybe they already had a different arrangement about such

I get your point😂, but I’d separate informing him from needing his permission. She should definitely have carried him along, but that doesn't automatically mean they must travel together or that he has

And I also feel the intention behind every discipline is what is important. If young people start associating church with fear because of how they are treated, then something has gone wrong. And that is

There are much better ways that can be addressed than embarrassing them or making them feel afraid. I feel discipline should be carryout in an understandable way to make those people do better , not punish