Hey, @galenkp.

I have a theory about idiocy when it comes to male and female relationships. Simply put, the deck is stacked.

In my case, I've chosen the other route, which is to never go to the doctor for any reason, especially old guy stuff, let alone get a referral to a specialist. :) Not trying to make light of what you need to do, though. I'm just saying, no referral, no need to make a decision what to tell or not to tell the wife. :)

Of course, it drives my wife crazy that I don't want to know what's going on, even if as far as I feel, everything is fine. So, there's that. :)