Many of us are too fast in criticizing someone but the funny thing is we get all upset when others criticize us even before hearing from us. Let's all learn to understand that a person's actions are a result of their experiences in life and it would be nice of us if we learn to hear from their reasons for their actions before judging but then again, I ask, who made us the judge over someone?
Nobody made us the judge of people, only God has the right to judge us humans, humans have no right to judge or criticize humans like themselves because nobody is perfect, and because this person has a flaw in these aspects of his or her life doesn't mean he or she is flawed all through.
I think God made humans have the strength and their flaws or weakness to constantly remind us that "He God knows that no human on earth is perfect" We only work towards perfection and even at that, it takes discipline and consistency to get to that point.
Let's not be in a hurry or fast in criticizing someone especially if we know nothing about their lives, let's learn to talk to people with love because it is only love that can quench the raging fire in our hearts. The person you are criticizing may be going through a lot and criticizing them for their actions isn't an ideal thing to do.
Let's spread love because love covers all things, people are going through so much especially in this period, so you could ask well overlook their actions and check up on them to get to know and understand the reasons for their actions instead of criticizing them.