There he said, "Nobody is to be blamed for the outcome of your life", did I feel pained at those words, maybe I did, maybe I did not but it stirred something up and I asked myself, have I been blaming people for the present outcome of my life?
Maybe I have been, maybe I have not been but then, what do we call me constantly thinking that perhaps if my parents had gone a little to the right and a little to the left, things would have been better for me, things would have been going smoothly and exactly how I want it to go at the point of my life.
Maybe he is not wrong, I am guilty have having such thoughts, but I think there are thousands of people outside who like me are guilty of " blaming people for their current predicament"
It's either they are blaming their parents for giving birth to them into this world and into that family or they are blaming their children for hindering them from succeeding or living that dream life or career they have always envisioned.
They blame their husbands, their siblings, their friends, their colleagues, and everyone around them for every mistake and bad choice they made and for their situations but then, is that what is supposed to be?
We are wrong to blame anyone for the outcome of our lives especially when we had the opportunity to make the choices ourselves even if they are part of it, they gave their input as everyone else would but it was in our power to make the choices that will either make or mare our lives. So, it's high time we own up to our mistakes and right out wrongs instead of blaming everyone we encounter in life, it does not put us in a good place, it never does.
Yeah, so I know, our parents made the mistake, our siblings did make the mistake, our colleagues made the mistake, our friends made the mistake, and everyone in our lives we can point the accusing finger at but then, if they all are the reasons for our failures and the reasons for our mistakes, what did we do to stop it from happening, if we did nothing, we have no right to blame someone who tried doing something and ended up making the mistakes for us.
Let's love our family, work super hard, live our passion, and take courage if there is a need, so we don't end up blaming people around us for our failures and the bad outcomes of our lives.