Hello rant family, I want to clear my mind friendship. I see friendship as a very interesting aspect of ones life, because they can make or mar you, they showcase about 50% of your personality, they tend share thought with you and advice you when need arises. My heart is broken because must times I try to help the once I call my friends they see it as I like acting like a boss and controlling people around.i will tell you a little story. A friend of my likes exhibiting this particular silly act,and most times I tried correcting her in a playful manner but I was not sure if she got the massage I passed because I was laughing when say it. In subsequent time, I noticed it again and I tried correcting her and this time around not in a playful manner but in a little harsh tune and the result was termination of our friendship. To me if a friend can't correct you when you are going astray, he/ she is not what your friendship and on the other have if your friend can't accept correction and you is a red flag to your personality, please say away from that company. See friendship is not a must do affair. Some friendship are just ment for the moment, some for a particular mission or purpose why very few stays with you for a life time.
Something times I ask myself "why can't you seal your mouth"? Since in the act of correcting I lose friends, and at the same time another thought will come and be like you will be not just a bad friend, but a bad person If you see and err and keep mute.
Nevertheless, I think I can't trade my personality for a penny, because I believe only a fool don't harken to advice.
