Hey @jaynie! Yes, that is the sad part of life. I don't think it bothers the kids so much but if they only knew how it could be. You might want to listen to this and you are already living in the Cape so it will be so much easier for you...

https://soundcloud.com/capexit-official/dr-peter-hammond-on-independence-at-the-capexit-agm?fbclid=IwAR3mOV_vbMoX3fK0QhKvYuRqiS3bAvQ7kA-9qqpIivXJq3TijdTs7PBEmRw