God knows when I become a parent I will like my kids to be able to confide in me

This is one very important point you have here dear friend. As a kid growing up most of the emotions, pain and others experience were pretty much kept to ourselves with no one to talk to free, you cant go to your mom, or any one at home it was really hard growing up like this and sure making a change on this will very much be a great idea.

Thanks for sharing this with us dear friend.