It’s an interesting way of seeing things. Personally, I do things quite differently, so I like opening up to other perspectives.

From my side, I don’t fully agree, and here’s why:

• I feel like your sense of morality might sometimes lead you toward guilt, blame, or the need for external validation.
• What I value most in decision-making is self-affirmation, creating your own values, and owning your choices (on that point, I’m with you). But for me, it happens without needing outside justification.
• I don’t think we always have to be wise or measured. Of course, not harming others is a given. But I believe the real joy in making decisions comes from what you build, from the actions you take, not to “do the right thing,” but to become more of who you truly are.

So for me, making decisions isn’t about morality or caution. It’s more about self-expression and shaping your own sense of what matters. External influence should be questioned, even overcome, though I do think active listening is important.

I really like our two points of view. It’s super interesting to explore the contrast !